- Members are gathered into small
tightly knit groups under a "shepherd" or designated
"spiritual leader." (Creates cloning effect)
- This group is part of a larger
congress or movement, which has strong central leadership, normally with one
very predominate man or woman at its head. (Often with a guise of plurality
of leadership)
- Book, tapes, publishers and the
like are normally limited to only a few very central people, primarily the
key leader. (In other words, only the centralized leaders, or the
predominate leader are allowed to write or circulate "approved"
material within the group.) While some other lesser members may attempt to
write, their material is not likely to receive wide distribution or
acceptance without clear-cut approval from the centralized leadership.
- There tends to be an intense or
high level of control of the shepherds over the sheep. The shepherds' advice
and/or approval is thought necessary, or very strongly urged in a number of
normally personal areas, such as dating, marriage, housing, jobs, education,
career, relocating to another city, etc. (This level of control is often
strengthened by the practice of communal style living. By having several
group members living in one household, the shepherds gain leverage in the
home environment, and are able to influence such personal areas as eating,
sleeping, reading, hygiene, purchasing of personal or "luxury"
items, etc.)
- Mundane
activities tend to be determined and directed by the leaders rather than by
doctrine.
- Shepherds, or
their designates, tend to see the "sheep" several times a week.
- There is a great
deal of pressure upon the individual to live up to or to conform to group
criteria above and beyond what can be clearly seen as biblical criteria.
- To question a
shepherd's teaching or conduct is considered as questioning God,
particularly if the shepherd has already defended himself against
questioning on that point of teaching or conduct. To continue to question or
challenge will likely result in "marking," "shunning,"
or "excommunication."
- Submission/obedience
to authority is a heavily emphasized doctrine.
- Guilt by
association is generally accepted, in that if someone is known to have had
contact with a dissenter or "marked" person, that one then is
considered to have been contaminated or "poisoned."
- There is no
accountability of the group to the wider Body of Christ The group vigorously
avoids any efforts to have their doctrine or methods, or even specific
instances, examined objectively by outside Christian leaders or theologians.
Financial and business records are not made available for public scrutiny.
- The group is
often an independent church or "fellowship" which has broken off
from a mainline denomination or otherwise generally accepted Christian
association.
- There tends to be
a monotonous repetition of certain doctrinal themes or the group's
"positions," which is observed in the group's teachings, tapes and
literature. Systematic theology is rarely, if ever, taught, and true
expositional type teaching is rarely, if ever, heard.
- There is an
emphasis, either implicitly or explicitly stated that this particular group
is "special." "We are God's assemblies." "We are
the true expression of the church." "We are not the only group,
but we are a very special group in God's eyes." "Eventually, all
Christians will do what we're doing, or else we will be persecuted by other
Christians."
- Unity with the
"church" is heavily stressed, usually to the point where it becomes
the chief doctrine of the group. Unity is considered to be more important
than "doctrine," yet the group cites its own pet doctrines as the
reason why they had to leave their parent organization or why they cannot
work more closely with other Christians, or why their members should remain
with them rather than join another group.
- There tends to be
an alienation from, or antagonism towards, other sources of information,
such as families, churches, authors, etc., especially if these other sources
challenge or question the pet doctrine of the group.
- The defensive
mentality of the group is so pronounced as to actually be institutionalized.
Elaborate, mechanisms and doctrines are in place to tell the members how to
cope with criticism of the group. This defensiveness has far more to do with
defending the group or its leaders, than it does with defending the Faith
"once for all delivered to the saints.
~Adapted from an article by L.
Pile, researcher
Questions to ask yourself:
- Have you ever had a Christian leader imply
that you were either rebellious or disobedient to God because you didn’t take
their advice?
- Have you ever had a Christian leader tell you
that you had an evil spirit or a spirit of rebellion simply because you asked
questions?
- Have you ever challenged a leader and they
saw this as an assault on their authority?
- Have you ever felt that a leader (or leaders)
was (were) lording it over you?
- Does it ever bother you when a Christian
group, community, or Bible study all look, act and talk alike?
- Has another Christian ever told you that they
were your shepherd?
If any of these questions ignite a positive
response in you, you may be involved in an aberrant and potentially destructive
relationship or group.
The New Testament gives us some basic guidelines
to protect us from getting involved in relationships which are destructive both
emotionally and spiritually.
(Read rest of article on
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~Excerpted from an outline by Harold Bussell, author of Unholy Devotion.
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