A Healthy Self-Concept For a Christian

I thankfully acknowledge that I am unconditionally loved and treasured by God who wanted a relationship with me and sent His Son to reconcile me to Him, to whom I now belong forever. (Rom. 8:31, 32, 38, 39; John 6:44; 17:23b)

I thankfully accept who I am in my unchangeable physical appearance, which God has uniquely designed for my life. (Psalms 139:14-18; 2 Cor 10:12; 12:9-10)

I thankfully acknowledge that I am unconditionally accepted as a worthy person to God because He has forgiven my sins and declared me righteous in His sight because of the merits of Jesus Christ, whom I have trusted as my Savior. (Eph. 1:6; Rom. 4:6-8; Isa. 61:10)

I thankfully acknowledge that I am a secure person because my heavenly Father cares about my tomorrows and asks me to trust His wisdom, leadership and goodness (Rom. 8:28; Matt. 6:25-33; Prov. 3:5, 6; Ps. 37:3-7, 23).

I thankfully acknowledge that I am in a process of growth. I have a sin nature that is part of my personality, but I consider myself dead to my sin nature daily and alive and responsive to God through my divine nature. I am not yet what I will be some day, but I am not what I used to be either. I accept my struggles as opportunities to depend more on the Lord Jesus and on His promises for daily strength (Heb. 13:5; I Peter 2:1-3; Rom. 6:11; 2 Cor. 10:13; Gal. 5:16)

I thankfully acknowledge that I am a competent person who is adequate to fulfill the Lord's will successfully each day. My strength is supplied by the indwelling Holy Spirit who also works through me to make an important and eternal impact on others with the love of God and the message of Jesus Christ. (Phil. 2:13; 4:13; I Cor. 10:13; I Pet. 4:10, 11; 2 Cor. 5:20)

IMPLICATIONS:

Since I am secure in being loved, accepted and cared for by God, and also am significant in that I have an important life to live for my Savior, I am not threatened or devastated by the way some people treat me or value me. They do not determine my self-worth. It pains me when they let me down, but it's not the end of the world. I can continue to act responsibly toward them as a Christian without demanding that they accept and respect me. It's nice if they do, but not devastating if they don't, since God does anyway and that is what counts.

Also read: My Position in Christ (accepted and secure forever)


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