This child survivor's first letter to ESN:

----- Original Message -----
From: 
To: ESN
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2001 5:25 PM
Subject: Fwd: Do You Care?

I thought you might be interested in this letter. I actually had written it before I got your reply that writing a letter can be good. There is only one problem, I sent this one. BUT, I certainly felt much better afterwards. It took me four hours to write it, and I honestly could not have done so without knowing that there are others out there who hurt as well. I kept thinking about the letters on your web site from people who are hurting as much as I am, and I wanted to write it for all of us. I tried to be kind, like you said we need to forgive those that have abused us. I thank you for keeping in touch. I will write again soon. 

Surviving

Letter to Joseph Tkach Jr.:

----- Original Message -----
From:
To: PastorGeneral@wcg.org
Sent: Monday, October 08, 2001 8:53 PM
Subject: Do You Care?

I have just finished reading several of your articles on your home page. I was raised in the WCG and am no longer a member. I am glad that you seem to think you are getting it all together. Unfortunately, there are many people that have been left wounded, hurt and spiritually destitute by the WCG. In reading your articles, it appeared you are, and were, more concerned about the drop in income over the years of your changes, than you were in the hurting hearts of those that had been mislead by the teachings. When will it get to the point where income becomes secondary to the people? Maybe that has been the problem all along, the people were only a means to an end. Once their income was no longer coming in, they lost their value to you as a "church." As any group of people, you have your loyalist, as well as those who find your organization disturbing. I realize that this letter will mean nothing to you and you have probably already hit the delete button. But, I am going to try and plead to your humanitarian side - if you have every cared about your congregation (and that includes those that are hurt, angry, bitter, disillusioned, and have left your organization), please, please never hurt anyone that way again. Not everyone was able to get over what WCG did - the hurt and pain that was caused by breaking up families, turning family members against one another when one or more where ex-communicated from the church, this is horrific. I now know that our God does not, nor has He ever supported such actions. I believe with all my heart that God loves each and every one of us - that He does and has forgiven us of our sins as we ask Him into our lives and ask for forgiveness. But, many people do not have that vision of God, and it has to do with the teachings of the WCG. (This would refer to those who were in the WCG)

I do not know you personally, although I have seen and heard you speak on several occasions - but I want to believe that you do care, that you do feel a responsibility to these people. You may not be able to make everyone believe that you care, but if you could show even just one person that you do care - that someone understands their hurt and anger. Who better for that to come from than you. No - you did not start the wrong teachings, but maybe you could do some healing. If you have changed as you say, show us. As I mentioned in the beginning of this letter, I no longer attend and I am not going to blame WCG for everything, but I do think that WCG needs to take responsibility for the wrong teachings, and in being responsible, this means helping those that have been spiritually hurt. If you say you have tried, then keep trying - do more. How hard would you work to save a person's life? How hard are the rescue workers in NYC working to help those hurt? Are they giving up after a week, two weeks, even a month? How hard will you work to help save a person spiritually? These are members of the body of Christ - we are all God's children. When we have hurt or even been part of something that has hurt others, we have a responsibility to help them. If we do not help, we are no better than the terrorist. I hope that you will give consideration to this issue. Prayer is the number one factor in all of the above. Prayer is the key to all - but a human demonstration of kindness is also necessary. Don't be afraid to put your heart out there - God will watch over it.

If you have gotten this far I thank you very much for reading this. Let us see God's love - reach out to those hurting, please.

From Someone who cares

Read: Hard to Believe That God Loves Me (from this same child survivor; includes several of her email updates to ESN at bottom of story)

NOTE: No reply was ever received back from Joseph Tkach, Jr. (nor from anyone else at WCG headquarters). This certainly says it all. It also contradicts the following:

Child survivors who have exited, or were thrown out of Worldwide Church of God (along with former members), have been completely ignored. However, they do not need HQ's acknowledgement in order to know they are accepted and loved by Jesus.

Also read:

June 2006 letters to ESN: "Joseph W. Tkach, Jr. and His Alamo Award Propaganda" and also following: "Joseph Tkach Jr. Sidesteps Issues in the Alamo Award Interview."

An Open Letter to Joseph Tkach Jr. (Forthright letter which boldly confronts Tkach with the double messages, half-truths and guilt placed on members during the changes; mentions Earl Williams.)

Lamb With Wolf-Like Jaws! (An amazing letter exposing the deceit, abuse and hypocrisy of the Worldwide Church of God. Written during the new doctrinal changes; mailed to ESN, David Covington, counter-cult apologetic ministries and local members.)

Read this part on our site which covers headquarters' "apologies."

Comforting Words About the True God (true statements that show how God really sees His children)

How to Recover After Exiting a Deceptive, Abusive Group

Research Information on Worldwide Church of God (history revision and exposé articles including reasons behind WCG's new changes)

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