How to Recover After Exiting a Deceptive, Abusive Group
Exiting
an Exploitive, Deceptive Group
Transcription of
Tape EX-3.
From
Victim to Survivor
Transcription of Tape EX-2.
Surviving
Written for those who
have suffered extreme abuse and who are having a difficult time recovering from
exploitive, soul-damaging situations.
How
to Walk
Yourself Through a Panic Attack
Healing Through Grief
Healing from grief, trauma and loss. Several articles; covers anger;
the four stages of grief and healing; includes
Personal Stories About Grief (from survivors of
Armstrongism).
Getting
the Group Out of Us
Exiters Tell What Has Helped Them to Heal From Armstrongism
Some results
from a question on our Anonymous Survey.
Common
Emotional Difficulties After a High Demand Group
Common
Spiritual Difficulties After a High Demand Group
Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
How Do People Get Out of Religious Cults?
Also includes: Stages in Leaving
the Cultic System.
Cognitive
Focusing for Exiters (An
Approach to Handling Depression, Anxiety, Fear & Guilt)
Prayers
For Freedom From Spiritual Strongholds
Very
effective in gaining liberation from many strongholds and oppressions due to
involvement in any harmful cult or occult practices; includes moral issues and
addictions.
Recovery
Issues and What to Expect
If
You Are a Survivor and Someone Wants to Interview You
Words of
caution.
An
End to Guilt
Excellent
message that focuses on the unconditional love of God and gives a clear
understanding of grace.
Where Do the Feelings Go?
Feelings from hurtful
stimulus are not permitted to be expressed in an emotionally abusive system;
includes: "How Do I Go About Writing and What Do I Write About?"
Stories, Testimonies & Writings by Exiters
Includes links to stories from
Child Survivors and PCG survivors.
Personal Writings About the Worldwide Church of God Experience
Those from any of
the high demand, abusive splinter groups can identify with many of these. Includes writings on:
Exiting, Deceit and
Abuses Suffered, plus other recent and validating writings on various
subjects.
Looking Back on My Experiences
These personal stories from
Lindsey are very helpful in understanding our involvement in the WCG, or any
of the controlling offshoot, and breaking free. Covers many subjects.
Good to Be Free From the WCG
Several
validating writings from Will.
Could No Longer Ignore We Were Victimized by the WCG
Predators--How Dare They!!!
Written by Mike who was involved with PCG.
We Must Understand How Controlled
People in PCG Are
Written by
a former member.
Indications
of Recovery For an Abuse Survivor
How Did Herbert W. Armstrong Recruit People?
Why Do
Many Exiters of Armstrongism Turn to Agnosticism or Atheism?
Amazing
Words That Have Been Said to Exiters -or- (What Never to Say to
Someone Who Has Been Deceived by an Exploitive Group)
Thought-Stopping
and Thought-Switching
To help control
agoraphobia
If
You Would Like to Email Others
Exiters Tell What Has Helped Them on ESN's
Site
It’s
Hard to Get Close to God After Being in Philadelphia Church of God
Also helpful
for child survivors of WCG.
Trauma
With Another Church
These
writings reveal what happened to one exiter who attended a Christian church too
soon. "The
Twilight Zone"; "Other
Christians and Cult Deception"; "The Full Christians" and more.
Are
Exiters "Out of Fellowship With God" if They Don't Attend a Church?
Struggles With Attending
Other Churches
Includes:
"Former Members Can't Be Pushed into Other Churches," and more.
Present
in the Pain
For
those who have suffered horrendous anguish, especially death of a loved one;
covers the rage one can feel at God.
Poems/Free
Verse/Comfort
in Music
Many survivors express
their feelings and emotions more freely through
poems. Also, reading through the words of sacred hymns can speak to us of Jesus and His love.
Let these
words comfort you.
Comforting Words About the True God
True
statements that show how God really sees His children.
Questioning Herbert W. Armstrong
Was he who
he said he was? Many articles. Also includes
two critical reviews
of HWA's book Mystery of the Ages.
I Don't Feel Like a Very Good Christian
What
Were the Lies and What is the Truth?
Replacing
HWA's fear-based statements with the truth from the Word of God.
Loving
What's Right Means Hating What's Wrong
Human
Rights for Those in Intimate Relationships
A
Healthy Self-Concept for a Christian
The
Difference Between Religion and Salvation
Survivors'
Rights
The
Love of God
Do
you know that you cannot keep God from loving you?
Because God Loves Me
How does the true God see
His children?
God's
Love in My Life
There are times when God
makes His love known to us in special, unexpected ways.
Some of these are miracle stories.
My Position in Christ
Accepted and
secure forever
Names and
Titles of Jesus
The more we study
this list, the more we will understand who He really is. How can we not help but
love Him?
Our Basic
Instruction Book
An
encouraging message by former member; includes a true life experience)
Psalms 91
Comfort for
times of fear.
How Do I Receive Eternal Life?
Will Exiters Who Become Atheists Have Another
Chance For Salvation?
Solitudes
Music
Dan Gibson (1922-2006) was a world-renowned naturalist and a pioneer in the field of sound
recording. We have found his "Solitudes Suite" and "Nature Sound Collection"
very helpful for relieving stress and facilitating mental relaxation.
Articles For Child Survivors
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Every healing
can take place only through grace.
~ Prof. Schultz
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Note: Worldwide Church of God (and its abusive splinter groups) taught a
false god. Any articles on this site that mention God are those that reveal the
true God, whose Love is everlasting, and who is full of mercy, grace and
compassion. He manifested His Love to us by revealing Himself through His Son,
Jesus, who saves us eternally by His grace and not by any works that we might
try to do.
He
healeth the broken in heart
and bindeth up their wounds.
- Psalm 147: 3
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