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Father Willing His Estate to
PCG:
Hi, My father has been a member
of PCG for at least 7 yrs. My mother IS NOT a member, nor are his
children. The subject is not discussed because we are not believers of
this kind of church. I speak with my mother at least twice a week (I
live on the other side of U.S. from them) and some of the things that
she has told me has angered me but my mother has asked me to hold my
tongue. She informed me that last year he gave almost 1/2 of his yearly
salary to this church for his tithe and he will not help with the
monthly expenses. He does pay for my son and me to come and visit every
summer ...
He has instructed my mother upon his death the church is to get a
portion of his assets. Of course my mother wants to be able to carry out
his last request because that is what a wife is suppose to do. Make no
mistake about my mother, she is a head strong women and has pretty much
ran the family!! But I have instructed my mother that if she carries out
this last wish I will go to court and fight for my sister's and my
inheritance and I will make sure the church does not get a PENNY, even if
this meant conflict with her.
Correct me if I am wrong, but does the Bible not say that the children
are to receive the inheritance of the father? I will find it to quote
the exact Scripture. But here is the problem that I am having. My mother
states that my father is saying that the time is near and when the
instruction comes he will have to leave to go to
the place that the
members have been preparing to go for the end of time and that he will be
leaving with a large portion of my parents life savings for his
survival. Divorce is out of the question for my mother; she married my
father for life. I do not want this letter to sound that all I am
thinking about is the money, but this church is not entitled to my
inheritance, nor will I allow Gerald Flurry to get his hands on what is
rightfully my mother's, mine and my younger sister....... EVER.......
My mother will not know where he will be going; once he is gone there
will be no contact ever again. My mother will never be able to collect
any life insurance in the event of his death because he will no longer
belong to his family but to the church. If he is to die before he leaves,
then she is to give the church a part of his assets. He will be going
and there is nothing nobody can do. He will not listen to reason. I
am sure that you cannot do anything but it sure helps to just be able
to VENT IT OUT.....
Thank you for your time and God Bless. --Has loved one in PCG.
I Actually Saw Flurry's Name Under
"Arrests" in Paper:
Hi there,
I thought I'd write when I saw
the transcript of Flurry's police record.
I was a grad student at the University of Central Oklahoma where this
occurred, and saw Flurry's name in the college paper under "arrests" a
few days after the incident. Being the quasi-good little WCGer I was at the time, I trotted over to
campus police and got a copy. I've since lost my copy, but what I
remember is exactly as you've presented it. I also gave a copy to our
WCG minister at the time, Don Lawson, which is presumably how it came to
the attention of WCG.
I was especially interested in
Flurry's rebuttal, since I was a member in OKC while he was our WCG
minister, and had been to his house. First off, his house is some miles
distant from the University, through the quite populated city of Edmond.
Second, this parking lot was not some scenic overlook, as he implies in
his rebuttal. Edmond, and the surrounding area is flat, flat, flat. The
parking lot was on a side street facing a seedy convenience store that sells beer.
I read on another site that
Flurry stated that the cop who arrested him was a WCG member. I'd been
attending WCG in Oklahoma City for some 16 years at that time, and there
were no members in law enforcement or security work, as WCG discouraged
that.
Anyway, keep up the good work.
My parents and brother are charter members of PCG, so I try to keep up
with what's going on there. --Former member
Financially Abused by PCG:
Just ran across your site doing a search on
HWA. I was a member for 10 years, then was in Flurry's for 3 months.
Now I am free. I have one thing to add to your site "for spiritually and emotionally
abused"...FINANCIALLY!!!
As a "spiritual widow" with a minor child,
I was on church
assistance. I can't begin to tell you how demeaning that felt, even though I was
grateful for it.
Anyway, before Flurry, we tested out
John Ritenbaugh [Church of the Great God]--even took a trip to North
Carolina
to see him in person. He said, "I don't know what God wants me to
do." Still,
we attended services 3 weeks, then went to Flurry's group. By now I was very skeptical, and
found him to be preaching several big biblical lies. My husband was supposed
to play violin in holy day services, but just before then, we found out about the
police record, so we never went back. We did write Flurry back and ask for a refund of our money, but no dice!!
They
ignored our request.
Some "friends" who were in Flurry's group told my sister and her
daughter in law (also former members of WWCG), that they could not be friends
with her anymore because two could not walk together. --Georgia
I Consider Gerald Flurry a Very Dangerous Man:
Hi
I am 36 and live in the UK. My mother brought me into the WCG in the UK
in 1967. I remained there and left and came back when I was in my 20's.
To cut a long story short I ended up in the PCG with my church member
wife. Gerald was giving all sorts of predictions and getting it all
wrong. At the FOT members were referring to themselves as future high
priests. It was getting silly. Gerald Flurry was an okay guy at the
start of the PCG. He was down-to-earth and a really presentable guy.
Problem is, the power got to his head.
I consider Gerry to be a very dangerous man. He will lead that church
into some desert somewhere.
I left when he said I could not have a divorce from my wife even though
she had had a baby by another man.
Kind Regards, --UK
Husband Demanding and Abusive After Joining PCG:
I have been reading your site
off and on for a while now. My husband had been a WCG member prior to our
dating. We married before there was a PCG here. My husband has
joined a local PCG group. From what I can tell, its not always in the
same place. He used to be such a nice guy, Now he is forceful, demanding
and abusive. He had previously encouraged me to go back to school, but now says I
need to quit my job to stay at home with our daughter, who is in daycare part time. I work part time. In addition, he is giving HUNDREDS
of dollars a month to the PCG, and is currently away at the Feast of
Tabernacles. Neither myself or daughter has been able to have a vacation
since this started--me not since 1997! In addition, he has paid the
rent, but the telephone and electric bills have not been paid in three
months, and are going to be shut off. Sound familiar?
Please let me know how to get a copy of Flurry's police report. I had
read somewhere that he had another confrontation with the law: have you
heard anything of this? Also, can you steer me to any information about
Flurry proclaiming himself as the end time apostle--and the same for HWA?
I would appreciate it. I have had to initiate divorce proceedings. We
have DSS in our house and he has abused our daughter twice in the past
year, and I had a restraining order out on him. I feel while he is a
member of this cult, I must limit our daughter's exposure to him, and
this means I need to take a lot of this to my lawyer. Please let me know
if you can be of any help. I would appreciate any advice you could give me.
Thanks! -- Anonymous
Comment:
Read: Biblical Titles Flurry Has Appropriated for
Himself and Quotes from HWA,
stating he was "Christ's Apostle" and "God's Apostle."
Also read: Do
Philadelphia Church of God Husbands Abuse Their Wives?
I'm Thinking of Joining the PCG:
Mike, I am seriously thinking
about joining the PCG. I've read Mr. Armstrong's book and feel he is
right about many things.
I found your web page by continuing my research on the WCG and PCG which
I have been doing for about one year. You are the first person to say
that Herbert Armstrong gave prophecy which didn't come true. I read the Scripture
references you gave, but can you tell me what were the
prophecies HWA gave that didn't come true?
I have contacted the PCG as late as September 2001 for membership and
have been in touch with Mr. Culpepper and am continuing to read required
literature.
As for Gerald Flurry, he has written that he is "That Prophet"
and "The Watchman" and "The Lawgiver." That's a lot
for one man.
Like many others I've been searching for "truth" for many
years and reading the Bible for direction. I have always been in church.
Either Baptist or Assembly of God or other mainline religion.
Please give me what information you can about PCG and HWA. I don't
intend to get in a cult.
Thanks for your information and help!!!! --Considering PCG
Comment: Read Mike's
answer in article form to this person and to all who are seriously
considering joining PCG. (Also included at bottom of article is, "What if I am becoming
hooked on PCG literature?") Two more emails from this person are below.
I am No Longer Considering PCG:
(2nd email from person above)
Mike,
Let me thank all who have
e-mailed me about the WCG and PCG. I have researched the churches and HWA
for a year or so. Some of you asked how I came to have an interest in
the church or read the material. Someone in the church gave me some
literature after talking to me about some of my beliefs. Due to the
extensive research I've done over my lifetime about the Bible and a
great many religious beliefs I've learned things historical that are not
in the Bible, but reflect some truth. I've researched the Jewish faith,
their calendar and most of their customs. I've had a calling on my life
from early childhood. So, when I knew to be true some of the things
discussed between me and the church member, I was given books by HWA to
read. All of you have experienced the truth mixed with HWA's words. I
can see some things in HWA's writings that to me bare some resemblance
to what will be in the end times. But for now, I just wanted to let you know that each of
you, by what you have written, the links you've directed me to, the
experiences I read about and comparing these things to the personal life
of the church member I was in conversation with, have more than
convinced me to never become associated with the WCG or PCG. I wish I
could convince the person I know to come out of this group and will
perhaps try. This person was raised in the WCG and is extremely
dedicated.
Thank you all for your love and support. FYI: I am currently in a very
good church and am the financial officer.
Please feel
free to e-mail me any time. --No longer considering PCG
Thank You For Exposing Liars:
(3rd email from person above)
Thank you for caring enough
about others and for taking your time to expose liars who are using the
Word for their own gain. What devious sin! I thought I had read about
some of the worst sinful plots on planet earth, but the minute I
realized (after reading your writings and links) the depth of
selfishness, arrogance, stupidity and demonic oppression of HWA I must say
my mouth fell open. The sudden realization that this man, while possibly
linking some Scriptures together which offer some truth about God's government, ranks right up there with Adolph Hitler,
Jim Jones and some
others. People that have followed HWA and the WCG/PCG have been/are so
misled that the happiness of abundant life through Jesus Christ has
alluded them and for what? My mind is still dissecting the various parts
of this cult, the damage to the members, the damage to the Gospel and
how very painful it will be for some surprised people to be in hell
rather than with Christ. HWA must have been mentally deficient to have
believed he was the finest creation on planet earth above the rest of
humanity. This in and of itself is enough to alert intelligent people to walk away from HWA.
For HWA to excuse himself from erring in prophecy because he was so
exalted--well, that's a second reason intelligent people walk
away. I can go on and so can you, but for now I must close.
Thank you for caring about me.
I will pray for you. --No longer
considering PCG
Gerald Flurry is a Joker!
I watched Gerald Flurry on TV
last week. I cannot believe people have not caught on to him! Wake up
folks!
He is still saying the same thing that he has been saying for the last 5
years. The exact same message and it is an immediate message for "today",
just like he said 5 years ago, that was for "today" also. It was like a
recording except instead of showing Saddam Hussein, he shows Osama in the
background. Ha ha. He just changed the background and not the message.
What a joker he is. I am glad I got a glance at his telecast because it
even proved to me that he is just another one of those on TV wanting the
big root of evil, and that is $$$$$ sent in to PCG.
What a joke. --PCG exiter
Thankful Others are Seeing PCG for What They
Are:
Thank you for your enlightening
and very accurate account of this cult group! The more Gerald Flurry
is exposed for what he is (including HWA), the sooner some people might
get out of this mind warp they are stuck in and start seeing reality,
start knowing God and Jesus Christ through reading their Bibles! I'm
so thankful that others are seeing
this group for what they are. I saw it years ago, but never had anyone
to talk to about it! THANKS. --T. W.
What is PCG's Policy on Divorce and
Remarriage?
I just read a little bit of
your website and decided that maybe you could inform me on some PCOG
doctrine.
I myself was exposed to the WCG from the early seventies on. I have had
my parents join the PCOG in the 80's and just have been recently
informed by my wife that she, too, is joining their ranks. I have not
been keeping up on their beliefs and now have little ammo to reason with!
One main concern I carry is, what is their policy on divorce and
remarriage??? I'm my wife's second and I remember the old
"break-up" incidents.
Any info on this matter or any other pertinent items would be
appreciated.
Thanks. --Concerned
Reply: If someone wants to get re-married, it will usually have to be
"arranged" within the group. Otherwise, it is discouraged.
Also, there are always "exceptions" in any PCG teaching as
long as it benefits the leaders.
Glimpses of PCG Scare Me:
Hello,
I have a loved one in PCG and
am concerned because the group is so secretive. I only get glimpses of
what they believe and these glimpses scare me. I don't know if I am
being paranoid, or if I am right to be worried.
Matters are made worse by the
fact that this person has influence on my minor daughter. I don't know
if I should be concerned about letting my daughter have
contact or not with this person.
Near the end of 1999, for
example, my daughter was concerned because evidently this person had
indicated that the Y2K problem would precipitate the end of the world.
It is difficult to know, because my daughter, out of loyalty to this
person, tells me little of what she believes.
I am just at a loss. I don't
want to criticize someone for her honest religious beliefs, especially
when I don't really know what they are. But, my daughter has started
having nightmares about the "end times" and started sleeping
with me and my husband.
Also, this information about
Flurry building a compound in Edmond, Okla. is worrying. I recently
found out from my loved one's mother that she is, right now, in Edmond
at the compound! The mother doesn't know what she is doing there. It
concerns me, because I have read an authoritative account of a PCG
member kidnapping children because she thought the end times were
coming.
What should I do? Any help
would be appreciated.
Sincerely, --Needing help
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