My father, Vyron Wilkins, was one of the 12 charter members of
Philadelphia
Church of God when
it was founded, and gave Gerald Flurry his VW van when WCG took back his
company car, leaving him without transportation. For the last eight
years he served as a minister in PCG, pastoring the Lawton OK. church,
and was also a senior editor of the The Philadelphia Trumpet. He took
no pay during that time, and in fact paid tithes to PCG on his
retirement income.
On September 28, 2001, at the
age of 71, my father died of heart failure. During the two and a half
days he was in the VA hospital in Oklahoma City, no PCG minister, and
only one PCG member (other than family) visited him in the hospital. The
VA hospital is less than 20 miles from "headquarters" in
Edmond OK.
During his tenure at PCG,
Stephen Flurry was named as the editor of the Trumpet. My father
continued with the actual editing, and as Stephen Flurry could not open
email attachments or operate a fax machine, he would demand that this
elderly man with a heart condition drive the hard copies of edited
articles from Norman, OK to Edmond OK, a distance of some 45 miles each
way. Often, this drive was made as late as midnight on Sunday nights.
This caused additional strain on a dangerously weak heart. When my
father was discharged from the military in 1978, he was found to be 100%
disabled. His condition only worsened after that.
All of this was done by Vyron
Wilkins for no pay. Presumably, Stephen Flurry was paid for his efforts
though. There is no explanation why Stephen Flurry could not have made
the drive to retrieve the edited articles, other than the obvious one,
that is. The callousness and arrogance of doing this to an elderly man
on a regular basis, gives a pretty clear picture of the Flurry family
values. Less than a week after my father's death, PCG informed my mother
that she is not eligible for any sort of widow's benefits from their
church, either as an indigent widow, or as the widow of a minister. I
had approached Barbara Flurry at the funeral (she stopped by, and did
not stay for the service), and advised her that I expected a pension to
be offered to my mother, as she is 71, in poor health, and has only the
widow's benefit left from my father's military pension. Barbara
explicitly assured me that they would be giving her a pension, and that
it had been promised to her already, the weekend after my father died.
Less than three days later, Barbara called and told my mother that she
wasn't eligible, and that my father wouldn't have wanted her to take a
pension anyway. Presumably PCG still collects third tithe for widows and
the indigent, however it appears that their practice is to talk those
same widows out of taking those funds. That this was done to a widow
less than a week after her husband's death is appalling even by secular
standards.
The fact that they do
this while building Imperial College1 is breathtaking in its audacity.
They don't have funds to take care of long time faithful members who
have fallen on hard times, but they do have money to build a self
aggrandizing college for Stephen Flurry (of the limited education) to
become dean. At the very least, I would urge all members to withhold
third tithe until a full accounting has been made by PCG of where those
funds are really going.
By Sharon Wilkins
October 26, 2001
P.S. I think what happened is
something that PCG should be very ashamed of. Since my father's death,
no PCG minister has bothered to visit my mother, who lives local to the
HQ church. One of them has phoned, but that's it.
Footnote by ESN:
1
Imperial College was renamed Herbert W. Armstrong College in December 2005.
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