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The Exit & Support
Network™ received the following interesting emails concerning thoughts
on WCG and Covington's stance on the WCG at a
Personal Freedom
Outreach Conference in October 1998. Includes David Covington's private
comments to them about
Worldwide Church of
God.
Also read:
David
Covington's Resignation Letter to Joseph W. Tkach
David
Covington's Letter to Greg R. Albrecht

First Email:
To: ESN
Date: Fri, 30 Oct 1998 21:30:19 -0700
Hi,
I think I did
tell you I'd let you know about the PFO* conference and that I'd
send you a
copy
of a letter I sent our old WCG minister when he showed up on our
doorstep one night. So, I'll attach a copy of that letter, let me
know if it you can open it ok. I'll send it the best way we know how.
That should help.
Well, I learned
a lot about myself and had a lot of questions answered from going to the
conference. The workshops seemed geared to helping the ex-cultist and
how to help present cultists leave the cult. There were a number of
ex-cultists there as well as people who wanted to know how to help
people get out of cults. That was very encouraging to us. Watchman
Fellowship and Wellspring
were there, Janis Hutchinson, Ron Burks and
lots more. Some spoke very dogmatically
saying that what cults do is evil. Also, that if we feel that people
don't understand, then we're not alone. He's so right.
The plenary
sessions for everyone were more geared to discerning apostasy
and heretical teachings. The one on ecumenism helped me to see why
evangelicals (led by
Billy
Graham) so quickly and easily accepted the
WCG. I thought they were being duped. I think now that
it has more to do with their hell-bent desire to bring all churches into
one body, and to do that they have to ignore some churches' heretical and
apostate teachings. In other words, the end justifies the means. The
plenaries were interesting
because they answered questions for me that I've had about the church I
came back to after 25 years. The "church" has changed, not
just in worship music and
styles of worship, but in how they approach sin. Many churches have no
absolutes for sin, trying not to make people feel guilty. Anyway, the
conference was helpful in explaining things like this for me.
We met the
Covington's and Bill and Kim Meyer from that church that split
off of WCG in Ohio. It was good to meet them all. Didn't have enough
time to get to know the
Covington's very well, but they are very kind and gracious people. I
hadn't given much thought before going to St. Louis that
the ex-WCGers would all be at different stages of recovery. I saw in a
couple of faces the pain and struggling that I faced a couple of years
ago, which helped me to realize
that I've come further than I thought. I could see anger at evangelicals
in a couple of those faces, too. I remember going
through that. A couple of months ago, I think I told you, we went
through another siege with evangelicals and realized that it was mostly
due to our personal sensitivities. Anyway, going to the plenaries showed
me that a lot of that anger
I once had towards evangelicals and WCG must be gone if I was able to
give grace to the speakers when I disagreed with their reasoning or
approach and still love them as my brothers in Christ. Can't tell you
how great that feels to be shedding the old arrogant WCG culture of
"always having to be right" and thinking we had all the
answers for everyone else, instead of caring about people and
relationships.
The WCG workshop by Covington
was informative if you wanted to know what
WCG was doing now. But I found it
disappointing cause I was hoping for a definitive statement on whether
it is still a cult. (I know myself it is, but I would have liked hearing
it declared in public.) When pressed for
an answer to whether it is still a
cult, David hedged and wouldn't give a
direct answer.1 The audience pressed harder, wanting to know
if the people in WCG were,
or could be, Christians. I think a couple of ex-WCGers took
offense at that, but I felt the audience was a concerned audience and
were trying to get some answers
(after all, they may have family in WCG.) For
myself, I wanted to stand up and shout out, "yes it is a cult as
long as they support the
heretic and false prophet Armstrong." Later, Mrs. Joan
Cetnar, widow of Bill Cetnar, whose tapes on Jehovah's Witnesses we had listened to,
said to us about WCG: "The
Lord will do what he wants with the organization, but what he cares
about are the individuals! As long as they
don't deny their false prophet, they are a false prophet organization.
Why is it so easy for an ex-Jehovah's Witness or ex-Mormon to declare that their
former
organization was a cult, but the ex-WCGer has to do a back-pedal and
go through a ton of explanations
as to why he left, even after the changes?
[Update: While Greg Albrecht (WCG
Media Director) glibly agreed in 2004 that Herbert
W. Armstrong was a "heretic" (read
it in: Called to Be Free),
WCG's
whitewashing of HWA has abounded since the new changes began. Read:
Has WCG
whitewashed Herbert W. Armstrong?]
I don't want to sound as though
I'm upset with David Covington concerning the workshop. I know he is
under tremendous pressure from WCG concerning even attempting to do the
workshop. I understand they put tremendous pressure on PFO* as well not
to do it. David's strength is spiritual healing, though, and he really
wanted to do the workshop on that topic. But,
he's not a cult-buster. And he's in the midst of healing, just like the
rest of us. I'm sure that being in the midst of recovery made it harder
on him, too. For instance, Mrs. Cetnar told me it's been 32 years out
for her, and she doesn't even remember what she went through. (There's
hope for us, too, huh?) But I think it would be better to do a workshop
after recovery rather than in the midst of it. So, I think David did a
very good job, but I would
have been happier with a solid conclusion for the audience to go home
with, not a "here's the facts, now you decide."
I also learned
from a workshop with Janis Hutchinson, that
even though I have come far, I'm still recovering. She listed many
symptoms ex-cultists go through, and I found myself still on the list in
a couple of places. I'm
going to keep going and not give up. I don't plan to spend my life
labeling myself as a victim of WCG. I hope to be able to embrace my new
life fully.
From their examples, I can see
that it is entirely possible to do so. Janis Hutchinson mentioned in her
workshop about renouncing your past
beliefs and throwing out all your old books that you hold dear from the
cult . We threw out the books a
while ago. Recently when our old WCG minister
came by (making sure we realized he was in his official capacity),
we
wrote a letter to him,
and from that workshop I realized that that letter was a strong
renouncing of all that is WCG in our lives. That must have been why
I had such peace from sending it.
Anyway, PFO* was a very good
experience for us. They are having
one in Chicago next year. That
will be half the travel time for us. We' re already looking forward to
it. I'm going to look into somehow getting a support group in this area
for exiters. Our experiences are
so similar to JW's that we should be able to find some ex-JW's at least.
Will take time, but I'm hoping it works out. This is more like a long
letter than an email. But I wanted to share
as much as I could before I forgot. Take care. Write soon, I really
enjoy your letters (email, too.)
Love, John and Shirley Smith
[names changed]
P.S. At one
plenary, one of my new friends was frustrated and angry with the
speaker. She told me she
felt so "beaten up " by the speaker. Actually, I
didn't agree fully with the speaker either.
*NOTE: Personal
Freedom Outreach (PFO) is a
member of Evangelical Ministries to New Religions (EMNR), a
Lausanne-covenanted organization of which Ron Enroth was a founder. EMNR
has, in fact, been instrumental in mainstreaming the Mormon religion as
a Christian denomination. WCG has given their approval to the Lausanne
Movement, calling it a work of God. (History of Mission Spokane - as of
2-13-00, "What is God Doing?" / "What on Earth is God Doing?" by Gary
Roberto.) Worldwide Church of God joined the Evangelical Ministries to New
Religions in 1998.
For more information, please see the following reports:
The New Age Ties of the
Apologetics Ministries
Evangelical Ministries to New
Religions (EMNR)
Second Email: [All
emphasis ours]
To:
ESN
Date: Tuesday, July 28, 1998 1:24 PM
Subject: Re: recovery
We thought it [Covington's
presentation on the WCG] was awful too. Even the audience was
frustrated, waiting for a definitive answer - is it a cult or isn't it?
Covington's presentation was all glitz and technology, reminded me of
WCG's approach - technology and glitz, and side-stepping the issues and
questions. I felt the long political arm of WCG
in that workshop and it was verified by Covington's comment
to me privately right after the workshop: "I
wanted to say it was a cult, too,
but I didn't want it on tape." What did he do it for if he
was afraid of Tkach? He knew it would be on tape. I
felt sick. I felt WCG's presence and knew they had won again! Anyway,
David did stress the financial abuses of the past and some of the
present, but didn't mention the spiritual abuse and manipulation, that I
recall. Also, he stressed the hierarchical form of government as lending
itself to abuses. He pretty much gave facts and left it up to the listener to decide if the WCG is STILL a cult. That really
left me disappointed, I have to say.
I still think that the Meyers and their congregation did a courageous
thing by leaving WCG, but now I wonder if by leaving it and staying
together if they didn't just create another smaller cult with Tkachiology as their
doctrine. By staying together they have maintained their same WCG
culture,
but without hierarchy. I think getting rid of that cult-culture, which I
describe as "cynical, arrogant, know-it-all, and exclusivist," is very important
to our recovery from abuse and our breaking ties with the cult.
The Covington's and the Myers
didn't participate in many of the plenaries and made sure that we were
all at the same table at the banquet. At the table, I just got the
feeling of being in WCG culture, and they seemed to want to keep to
themselves. I felt so sorry for them because I had a strong desire to
learn from the plenaries and be exposed to as much of the conference as
I could. I chalked it up at first to their being at a different stage of
recovery, and maybe that is so. But afterwards, I realized they had a
"them and us" attitude. They were suspicious and critical of
all the information I shared with them from the plenaries and workshops.
It was almost like they were there "to teach the evangelicals and
fundamentalists their better way." Unfortunately, that's what the WCG
attitude is: "have you seen the latest (July) Worldwide News?" Tkach
feels WCGers have a better knowledge of Bible study and Old Testament
and they can help the evangelicals (who he claims most don't have a good
Bible understanding) with their knowledge and skills!!! It was so
laughable to claim to have a better understanding of the Old Testament
and Bible Study with their track record of heretical teachings and
understandings!!! Anyway, there were others that had no problem labeling
groups as cults. They weren't afraid! And they weren't political!!!!
When evangelicals (and cults) try to reshape people into their molds of
cookie-cutter Christians, they make a terrible mistake!!!
Love,
John and Shirley Smith [names changed]
Footnote by ESN:
1David
Covington boldly confronted WCG in the past,
but when he later had his "Ministry of Healing" website up, his Crossroads
newsletter contained the words, "You will not find statements
against the WCG." Whether the WCG leadership threatened Covington in some way to
cause him to be less convicted than before, is not known.
UPDATE: The
last Exit & Support Network™ heard from David Covington was when he told us that he
"spends most of his time in Fiji now," and "doesn't have
much time for the WCG stuff anymore." As of August 2000, Covington's
"Ministry of Healing" website was no longer up and we have no
word as to what he is doing today.
David Covington's Resignation Letter to Joseph W. Tkach
David Covington's Letter to Greg. R. Albrecht
ESN's
Open Response to WCG on the Internet
(Re:
David Covington's Resignation Letter. Covers WCG's deceitful, abusive
tactics)
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